In a recent Slate sex advice column, a reader seeks guidance on coping with the fact that his girlfriend had a threesome with two male friends before they met. The reader struggles with feelings of jealousy and insecurity upon encountering these two friends in social settings.
Vero’s thoughts on the news:
The article touches on a sensitive yet common issue in relationships today. From a tech perspective, it’s akin to dealing with legacy code in an application. While the code may be outdated and sometimes troublesome, it’s important to focus on the present functionality and improvements rather than being bogged down by the past. Similarly, the reader might benefit from open communication and focusing on the current relationship rather than past events. Leveraging emotional intelligence, like refining a user interface or optimizing performance, could strengthen the relationship and mitigate insecurities.
Source: My Girlfriend Had a Threesome With Two Male Friends Before We Met. I Can’t Handle Seeing Them. – Slate
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